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Holding Space for Ourselves: The Power of Solitude in Leadership.

grief&work personal growth Oct 24, 2023
Man hunched over his work, paperwork and laptop. He is wornout he needs a break. we need to hold space for our self. sometimes solitud is what we need.

Quote: "The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself." - Michel de Montaigne

 

Introduction:

Ever tried stepping away from a pesky computer issue, only to find that it magically resolved itself upon return? Sometimes, we're like those computers. The hectic pace of life, the never-ending to-do lists, the back-to-back Zoom meetings - they're all the open tabs slowing us down. Just like that laptop gasping for a break, we all desperately need a pause button.

 

 

The Real Deal About Solitude:

Solitude isn’t about booking a one-way ticket to a deserted island (although tempting). It's not an extended vacation from reality either (I wish!). It’s about granting ourselves the luxury of being in our own splendid company, dancing to our thoughts, and occasionally laughing at our quirky self-reflections.

 

 

Why We Need Solitude:

  1. Crystal Clear Thinking: Ever tried thinking clearly with a million notifications buzzing? Me neither. A dash of solitude can give us that eureka moment!
  2. The Feels Train: Solitude is like that trusted barista who knows just how you like your coffee. It gives us the space to sip on our feelings, one emotion at a time.
  3. Creative Genius Mode: ON: Picasso didn’t have Netflix. Sometimes, solitude is all we need to get those creative juices flowing.
  4. Becoming Our Best Fan: Recognizing our victories, big or small, starts by taking a moment to pat ourselves on the back.

 

Getting That Coveted 'Me-Time':

"But where do I find the time?", I hear you ask. Between juggling work, hobbies, and that guilty pleasure reality show, finding solitude sounds like hunting for a unicorn. But trust me, it's there if you know where to look!

 

 

Embracing Solitude Without Going MIA:

  1. Nature's Therapy: A quick stroll, some rustling leaves, and voila! Instant mood lifter.
  2. Journaling - Because We're All Bestselling Authors In Disguise: Putting pen to paper, or fingers to keyboard, can be oddly liberating.
  3. Meditation: For when we need a mini-vacation from, well, everything.
  4. Digital Detox: Who knew that turning things off and then on again applies to us too?

Quote: "Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes... including you." - Anne Lamott

 

Conclusion:

In the grand play of life, where we're all trying not to forget our lines or trip over props, a little timeout can be the interval we didn’t know we needed. Embrace solitude, not as an escape, but as a rendezvous with the most exciting person you know - you!

 

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